One day we realized that our 9-year-old son did not know how to blow bubbles and we decided that it was time to remedy the situation. Up to this point, we weren’t purposely limiting his access to gum, but for whatever reason he’d rarely ever had it. Maybe 3 or 4 times in his life.
Anyway, one day we were at the grocery store in Rovinj and Ethan, our son, was not so subtly hinting that he really wondered what the gum at the check out stand would taste like. It was bubble gum. We bought some and proceeded to attempt to explain how to blow a bubble. It’s surprisingly difficult to explain. All you can really do it tell them to chew the gum until it’s soft, then put it just behind your teeth, push your tongue through, so that the gum covers it, then purse your lips around your tongue and blow. The *real* trick is getting the air to flow between your tongue and the gum. This is all very complex and hard for anyone on the receiving end to grasp.
Once you’ve explained the process and demonstrated it, they just need to practice it until they get it. More than once, the gum got spit out mid-blow. There was much confusion and frustration. Until… the lightbulb went off and voila! The first bubble. Then there was a period where he had to figure out how to repeat it.
Eventually, it all made sense and he could blow bubbles on demand. And it is so satisfying and entertaining for him.
There have been so many little (and big) milestones during our trip. Ethan became a strong swimmer in Thailand, mastered chopsticks in Vietnam, and began experimenting with new drawing styles in Malaysia. Now, in Croatia he has become a confident bicyclist and has learned to blow bubbles. The best part? We were there for it all.
Aside from the obvious, showing them the world, these are the very special reasons for traveling with children. Traveling together means more time together to witness and share all the little milestones along the way. I love your post. It reminds us the greatest gift we can give our children is time xx
Thank you and I agree. As the saying goes: kids need our presence, not our presents.